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This week we have a story to share about Linda's experience with us as a volunteer, yet another inspirational volunteering story.
When Linda* started with Communities 1st, she really wanted to be a befriender, but the opportunities weren’t there; instead, she did a lot of shopping. Later she became a telephone befriender. She explained that she would phone an elderly gentleman. I very much enjoyed this. It’s a bit surprising because when you regularly talk to someone you soon find out that you have a lot in common. The befriending came to an end “when very sadly the old boy passed away. I look back fondly on the chats that we had.”
Since 2020, Linda has been shopping for an elderly couple who are quite disabled and then last year she started shopping regularly for an elderly lady. Linda feels that there are real benefits in one person doing the shopping for the service user - “It means that you really get to know them and what they like. The personal touch is so important. If the shop is out of stock of something I can always find a substitute. This works well. I can also look at the dates on the foods and avoid short sell by dates. Sometimes they might put down ‘sausage rolls’, for example, but because I know them, I will know how many they will want and what type.”
Linda is happy to help. “We’ve built a nice relationship. I think we see each other as friends. We always have a short chat and a laugh and a joke about everyday things. But I don’t stay long.” Linda is keen not to intrude. “They don’t need befriending – the couple have a large family and the lady has lots of friends. The arrangement works well, and Communities 1st have made the process very easy. I speak to the girls in the office most weeks. They usually ring me. They’re very helpful.”
*Not her real name
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